I Like a Boy
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I Like a Boy
This is way off topic, but there are several of you whose opinions I highly value. Perhaps you can help me:
Last semester, there was a gorgeous guy in my class--he's funny and seems to be intelligent, so those are huge pluses. I didn't ask him out because I was in a relationship, but I still had my eye on him.
He's in a class with me this semester as well (what are the odds? There are 30,000 on this campus!), and I'm no longer in a relationship.
I've been in long-term relationships since I was 19, and I've forgotten how to ask a man for a date. I don't want to be a dork and ask him for dinner or anything...how do I ask him out? God, I feel like a 16 year old:
"Do you like me? Circle yes or no."
Yeah. Maybe I'll do that.
Last semester, there was a gorgeous guy in my class--he's funny and seems to be intelligent, so those are huge pluses. I didn't ask him out because I was in a relationship, but I still had my eye on him.
He's in a class with me this semester as well (what are the odds? There are 30,000 on this campus!), and I'm no longer in a relationship.
I've been in long-term relationships since I was 19, and I've forgotten how to ask a man for a date. I don't want to be a dork and ask him for dinner or anything...how do I ask him out? God, I feel like a 16 year old:
"Do you like me? Circle yes or no."
Yeah. Maybe I'll do that.
If there's one thing you can say about mankind--there's nothing kind about man
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Dear Candy
I was just talking to my girlfriend this morning about how men and women relate to each other. I pretty much told her that I (and maybe most men) are a little oblivious to the fact that a woman is interested in them, unless they are blunt! I always just assume that they just like me as a person and are seeking friendship if they show interest. Then she told me that women send "signals"....what are signals??? It could be just a smile, getting his attention with a look and then striking up a conversation with him, and then asking him if he wants to have a cup of coffee after class. A good approach is...."hey, what are you doing after class?" or "what are you doing Friday night"...then see how he reacts. Maybe he'll scoop up the ball and ask you out! Or if he's shy and says, "I have no plans"...then ask him to grab a java java.
Another thing we talked about is the danger of meeting someone one cannot resist. So I have a question for you....You were in a relationship, but yet you saw this guy as someone you "wanted" even though you had a thing going. Was it just that he was irresistable? Or were there probs in your relationship that opened the possiblity up.
My opinion is that as long as everything in a relationship is going well and that both people are turned on and feel love, that no one can come between them. I feel this because I experience that I find no other women attractive now that I'm so much in love....(this by the way is something new for me! Believe me, I've been a girl watcher for years).
Does the concept of total and blinding love exsist??????????????
I was just talking to my girlfriend this morning about how men and women relate to each other. I pretty much told her that I (and maybe most men) are a little oblivious to the fact that a woman is interested in them, unless they are blunt! I always just assume that they just like me as a person and are seeking friendship if they show interest. Then she told me that women send "signals"....what are signals??? It could be just a smile, getting his attention with a look and then striking up a conversation with him, and then asking him if he wants to have a cup of coffee after class. A good approach is...."hey, what are you doing after class?" or "what are you doing Friday night"...then see how he reacts. Maybe he'll scoop up the ball and ask you out! Or if he's shy and says, "I have no plans"...then ask him to grab a java java.
Another thing we talked about is the danger of meeting someone one cannot resist. So I have a question for you....You were in a relationship, but yet you saw this guy as someone you "wanted" even though you had a thing going. Was it just that he was irresistable? Or were there probs in your relationship that opened the possiblity up.
My opinion is that as long as everything in a relationship is going well and that both people are turned on and feel love, that no one can come between them. I feel this because I experience that I find no other women attractive now that I'm so much in love....(this by the way is something new for me! Believe me, I've been a girl watcher for years).
Does the concept of total and blinding love exsist??????????????
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I'm with Blue Chair on this....ask him for a cup of Joe, talk, maybe you will find that he's a dolt and not what you thought he was....maybe he's gay now.....maybe he has joined a cult....catch up....throw out some crumbs and see if he follows the trail....
El Vez does have a much more direct route, though....
El Vez does have a much more direct route, though....
Where are the strong?
Who are the trusted?
Who are the trusted?
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I e-mailed him last night about a making a study date for our midterm exam. He hasn't responded yet...damn it...
So, I've attempted contact, and made it seem like I just want to get with him to study.
I wonder if discussing Shakespeare's Henry IV could be done more easily naked...?
So, I've attempted contact, and made it seem like I just want to get with him to study.
I wonder if discussing Shakespeare's Henry IV could be done more easily naked...?
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I haven't gotten the hang of the whole Friendster thing. I mean, I have a profile but I don't know how to find people.
Geez this is hard...
By the way, no reply for Hot Frattish Blonde. Maybe he doesn't check that e-mail (which is entirely possible) or he read it and laughed.
Sigh.
Geez this is hard...
By the way, no reply for Hot Frattish Blonde. Maybe he doesn't check that e-mail (which is entirely possible) or he read it and laughed.
Sigh.
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